The Desire Journal

Honest answers for women over 40

For women in perimenopause and menopause

Why 150,000+ Women Want Sex Again, the Way They Used To

If your sex drive turned off like a switch somewhere in your 40s, you're not imagining it. You're too tired before your head even hits the pillow. He reaches for you and you find a reason to roll over.

You love your husband, and you feel guilty every time you say no. You're not broken, you're not alone, and you don't have to stay this way.

Here's what's really going on, and what's helping women want sex again.

Note: Read this before you say "not tonight" again.
Celestials Editorial Team
Celestials Editorial Team
The Desire Journal · by Anna Wong
Reading time: 2 minutes
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It Works on the Real Reason You Stopped Wanting Sex

You used to want sex, and then one day your sex drive was gone. You're half asleep before he's done brushing his teeth. He reaches for you, you say you're too tired, and you mean it. You still love him, you just don't want it anymore, and you blame work, the kids or getting older.

It isn't your fault, and you're not broken. Your body changed. That's all it is. As your estrogen drops in your 40s and stress stays high, your body puts all its energy into getting you through the day. Wanting sex is the first thing it lets go.

Estrogen drops in your 40s and desire is the first thing to go
Celestials Fenugreek bottle
02

You'll Want Sex Again, Even After a Long Day

Women notice something else too. You get into bed after a long day and you still want him. There's no caffeine in it, so no jitters and no crash. You feel less dry and more comfortable during sex, and you stop saying "I'm too tired" every time he reaches for you.

03

It Helps You Want Sex Again, Without Hormones or a Prescription

Celestials is a natural capsule made from fenugreek seed. Its plant compounds help your own estrogen, and they are not hormones. Most fenugreek pills are too weak to feel, but each serving of Celestials equals 1350mg of seed, so you feel it.

That's why lube only helped the dryness, the gummies did nothing, and your doctor told you to live with it. Celestials is made to bring back your sex drive, and you take it every single morning.

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Woman holding Celestials Fenugreek supplement
04

You'll Feel Close to Him Again,
Not Like Roommates

This is the one women get emotional about. It's the guilt every time you say no, the distance that built up, and the jokes about it that stopped being funny.

When it comes back, it doesn't feel like a chore. You just want him. You reach for him first again, and you stop snapping at him over nothing.

WHAT THE RESEARCH SAYS

What Happened When Women Took Fenugreek for 8 Weeks

Phytotherapy Research, 2015
Randomized, double-blind, placebo-controlled
80 women
8 weeks
600mg a day

“There was a significant increase in ... sexual desire and arousal compared with the placebo group.”

In plain words: the women taking fenugreek wanted sex more than the women on the placebo.

“The results indicate that this extract of T. foenum-graecum may be a useful treatment for increasing sexual arousal and desire in women.”

Lead author: A. Rao, Sydney Medical School, The University of Sydney

Rao A, et al. Phytotherapy Research, 2015;29(8):1123–30. PMID 25914334.

Read the study on PubMed →
Celestials Fenugreek capsules are easy to take with breakfast
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Takes 5 Seconds With
Breakfast. Nobody Will Know.

There's nothing to learn and nothing to remember at night. You take two small capsules with the breakfast you already eat, and that's it. It comes in a plain box, so nobody knows what you ordered.

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FOR WOMEN OVER 40

They Said Wanting It Again
After 40 Was Impossible.

150,000+ Women Proved Them Wrong.

Getting older doesn't mean you stop wanting sex. You can want it again, the way you used to.

Most pills and gels try to push desire without fixing why it left. That's why they didn't work for you, and why it was never your fault.

Celestials helps with the real reason you stopped wanting it. Fenugreek helps the estrogen your body lost, with no hormones added. Once your body isn't just trying to get through the day, wanting sex comes back on its own.

It builds, and one day you notice you want sex again, and you didn't have to talk yourself into it. You stop saying you're too tired. You reach for him first, and you feel close to him again.

Every order comes with a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you're not happy, send us one email and get every dollar back, even if the bottle's empty.

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REAL WOMEN. REAL RESULTS.

What 150,000+ Women Are Saying

Here's what they say, in their own words.

★★★★★

“Week one, honestly, nothing. Week two I caught myself wanting him on a random Tuesday. By week four I stopped saying I was too tired. Now at day 60 my libido is just back.”

Megan T. — Verified

★★★★★

“My husband has not asked what changed, but he has noticed. That is all I will say. I ordered three more bottles yesterday.”

Laura B. — Verified

★★★★★

“Three years of feeling nothing. Then twelve weeks of two capsules with breakfast. The desire shows up on its own now, the way it used to. And it came in a plain box, which I loved.”

Nicole S. — Verified

More Reviews

4.9 from 3,842 reviews

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Caitlin Romero Verified
★★★★★

I bought this because my libido had gone quiet for a long time and I wanted something simple to add to my routine. I took two capsules with breakfast every day. The first couple of weeks felt subtle, but by week four I noticed I was thinking about intimacy again instead of always feeling too tired or uninterested. By the second month I felt more like myself and more connected with my partner. The change was gradual, not overnight, which honestly made it feel more believable to me.

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Mackenzie Ward Verified
★★★★★

Discreet parcel, easy routine, and a really positive first month for me.

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Candace Miller Verified
★★★★★

My desire feels noticeably better and I feel more like myself again.

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Jessica Herrera Verified
★★★★★

My main goal was to feel interested in intimacy again without making my routine complicated. After a few weeks of taking two capsules with breakfast, I noticed I was initiating affection more often and not automatically saying I was too tired. I am happy to keep going.

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*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. The 8-week study examined a fenugreek seed extract as an ingredient (Rao et al., Phytotherapy Research, 2015, PMID 25914334), not this finished product. Survey results are based on consumer feedback surveys.

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